We all live in a world where people hurt each other.
Where people live for only themselves..
and..
I don’t understand.
I don’t understand how u can openly hurt someone and simply just not care.
or
what goes through your mind as a justification.
We justify Murder.
We justify Rape.
We justify Abuse, mental or physical.
and what is the justification..?
What’s going through the rapist head?
How does this person make this ok?
We are all born as babies... with such purity and innocence. At what point do we change? At what does the justification begin?
At what point do we see someone and think "I am going to hurt you...because..."
WHAT IS THE BECAUSE?
because... it will benefit me
because... I will feel 'empowered'
because... they will feel week
but when we are born... we are programmed with right and wrong.. we are programmed with a conscience and common sense...
See, the thing is, is that everyone has a story but not everyone get to tell it. So that person that rapes a little girl.. what happened to him? No one cares after he rapes her... at that point he is only a disgusting piece of shit.. but what if, what if someone would have cared for him BEFORE... before he raped anyone or before a women kills her children.
What if someone would have just asked.... "Are You Ok?"... "How Are You Doing?"
We are all so selfish, we are all about us and what is going to benefit us..
And we don’t really care about any one else anymore. We don’t care about asking people if they are ok, telling them they look nice or even just saying Good Job
Things that would take 3 seconds out of our life to say, Might be the one thing that someone needed to hear
and I guess, I guess it isn’t that simple.. because..
maybe no one asked us if we are ok or how we are doing or "what’s going on with you today"... or..
"How was your childhood?.."
"Are you ok?"
"How are you dealing with it??"
Because I know it is in the past and all of us have an expectation for people to just get over things!
And that’s not ok.
They will get over whatever they need to get over in the time it takes them to get over it.
However, they may need someone to talk to...
So they can say "IM MAD"
"I'm hurt"
"and I HATE this.."
Let them feel feelings and let that be ok.
Let some one say.. "That really sucks..I’m sorry. You can talk to me. and I’m Here"
Nobody says those things anymore.. no one really cares.
We see people and we have absolutely no connection to them.
We have more connection to people over the internet, People on websites... then we do to actual people..
Then to the people right in front of you.
And I'm the crazy one..
Because I see people and I wonder about them..
You can have the worst day in the world and see people all around you having the time of their lives..
And absolutely no one knows or cares what’s going on with you.. and you just want to scream
("Alone in a room full of people"... My family has always said this)
We can all put on a face..wear a mask
We can all make it look perfect.. make it look ok...
but..
Are You Really????
You never know when that breaking point is for someone..
When they are.. done..
Done.. Wearing a mask
Done.. Pretending.
Then
They want people to feel what they feel
and
See what they have seen
Why not just ask..
Why not just say "hey, How are you doing today"
Even something as simple as a compliment
Someone can have a terrible day.. and you don’t know that.. because you don’t care to ask.
I mean nobody really does.
We say "How are you" and "Have a good day" in Passing and no one actually means it.
They are words. They are cordial.
But no one actually means it.
When someone asks "How are you Today?"
A clerk
A Random person who holds the door open for you..
Default response "I’m good, How are you?"
Superficial answers to superficial questions.
Because When people ask how you are they rarely ever care.
They only care about how quickly you respond and how quickly they can go about their day.
Look.. Watch yourself..
You will ask.. "how are you"
But I dare you.. Next time you ask how are you..
Actually care about the response.
LISTEN.. to what they are going to say.
I'm Guilty of this myself
But I’m trying to care about what is being said.
Care about people.
We are all so quick to judge..
We all want stuff..
We are walking around with our droid Phones, our Ipads, our Iphones...
Our new cars..
and the truth is We have stopped caring about each other..
Politics... and... stuff..
Has gotten in the way of us caring about people..
and their hearts. Their feelings..
and it SUCKS
You have all these people.. All these really great people..
Who hit that breaking point and are just done..
Done.. Being hurt..
Done.. Being sad..
Its all just superficial
So next time you lie to someone..
ask them how they are
Break someone’s heart
Or you physically hurt someone..
ask yourself why..
Why did I do this?
Why am I doing this?
What makes it ok?
What justifies this in my head to hurt this person??
Because I cant figure it out.
I’m guilty of the same shit and yet I Can Not figure it out.
Why we do it..
For self benefit..
Hurting someone else is not a benefit.. its just cruel.
I have been mad at the world for a long time..... So mad at them for hurting me..
So mad at God, For putting me in certain situations.
And why?
Because its life and its what happens.
I’m Still Alive
I’m Still Given other chances
Given opportunities to be there for people
and to love people
and yet.. and yet
I’m just as selfish..
I have my droid phone, my new car.. and I ask the empty questions..
This is what I’m going to work on..
Asking "how are you" Genuinely and caring
Learning how to listen.. to slow down and listen
to see..
To embrace all that is around me and all the opportunities I am given
Where people live for only themselves..
and..
I don’t understand.
I don’t understand how u can openly hurt someone and simply just not care.
or
what goes through your mind as a justification.
We justify Murder.
We justify Rape.
We justify Abuse, mental or physical.
and what is the justification..?
What’s going through the rapist head?
How does this person make this ok?
We are all born as babies... with such purity and innocence. At what point do we change? At what does the justification begin?
At what point do we see someone and think "I am going to hurt you...because..."
WHAT IS THE BECAUSE?
because... it will benefit me
because... I will feel 'empowered'
because... they will feel week
but when we are born... we are programmed with right and wrong.. we are programmed with a conscience and common sense...
See, the thing is, is that everyone has a story but not everyone get to tell it. So that person that rapes a little girl.. what happened to him? No one cares after he rapes her... at that point he is only a disgusting piece of shit.. but what if, what if someone would have cared for him BEFORE... before he raped anyone or before a women kills her children.
What if someone would have just asked.... "Are You Ok?"... "How Are You Doing?"
We are all so selfish, we are all about us and what is going to benefit us..
And we don’t really care about any one else anymore. We don’t care about asking people if they are ok, telling them they look nice or even just saying Good Job
Things that would take 3 seconds out of our life to say, Might be the one thing that someone needed to hear
and I guess, I guess it isn’t that simple.. because..
maybe no one asked us if we are ok or how we are doing or "what’s going on with you today"... or..
"How was your childhood?.."
"Are you ok?"
"How are you dealing with it??"
Because I know it is in the past and all of us have an expectation for people to just get over things!
And that’s not ok.
They will get over whatever they need to get over in the time it takes them to get over it.
However, they may need someone to talk to...
So they can say "IM MAD"
"I'm hurt"
"and I HATE this.."
Let them feel feelings and let that be ok.
Let some one say.. "That really sucks..I’m sorry. You can talk to me. and I’m Here"
Nobody says those things anymore.. no one really cares.
We see people and we have absolutely no connection to them.
We have more connection to people over the internet, People on websites... then we do to actual people..
Then to the people right in front of you.
And I'm the crazy one..
Because I see people and I wonder about them..
You can have the worst day in the world and see people all around you having the time of their lives..
And absolutely no one knows or cares what’s going on with you.. and you just want to scream
("Alone in a room full of people"... My family has always said this)
We can all put on a face..wear a mask
We can all make it look perfect.. make it look ok...
but..
Are You Really????
You never know when that breaking point is for someone..
When they are.. done..
Done.. Wearing a mask
Done.. Pretending.
Then
They want people to feel what they feel
and
See what they have seen
Why not just ask..
Why not just say "hey, How are you doing today"
Even something as simple as a compliment
Someone can have a terrible day.. and you don’t know that.. because you don’t care to ask.
I mean nobody really does.
We say "How are you" and "Have a good day" in Passing and no one actually means it.
They are words. They are cordial.
But no one actually means it.
When someone asks "How are you Today?"
A clerk
A Random person who holds the door open for you..
Default response "I’m good, How are you?"
Superficial answers to superficial questions.
Because When people ask how you are they rarely ever care.
They only care about how quickly you respond and how quickly they can go about their day.
Look.. Watch yourself..
You will ask.. "how are you"
But I dare you.. Next time you ask how are you..
Actually care about the response.
LISTEN.. to what they are going to say.
I'm Guilty of this myself
But I’m trying to care about what is being said.
Care about people.
We are all so quick to judge..
We all want stuff..
We are walking around with our droid Phones, our Ipads, our Iphones...
Our new cars..
and the truth is We have stopped caring about each other..
Politics... and... stuff..
Has gotten in the way of us caring about people..
and their hearts. Their feelings..
and it SUCKS
You have all these people.. All these really great people..
Who hit that breaking point and are just done..
Done.. Being hurt..
Done.. Being sad..
Its all just superficial
So next time you lie to someone..
ask them how they are
Break someone’s heart
Or you physically hurt someone..
ask yourself why..
Why did I do this?
Why am I doing this?
What makes it ok?
What justifies this in my head to hurt this person??
Because I cant figure it out.
I’m guilty of the same shit and yet I Can Not figure it out.
Why we do it..
For self benefit..
Hurting someone else is not a benefit.. its just cruel.
I have been mad at the world for a long time..... So mad at them for hurting me..
So mad at God, For putting me in certain situations.
And why?
Because its life and its what happens.
I’m Still Alive
I’m Still Given other chances
Given opportunities to be there for people
and to love people
and yet.. and yet
I’m just as selfish..
I have my droid phone, my new car.. and I ask the empty questions..
This is what I’m going to work on..
Asking "how are you" Genuinely and caring
Learning how to listen.. to slow down and listen
to see..
To embrace all that is around me and all the opportunities I am given
